• By admin
  • / October 1, 2020
  • / Blog

Peers…dictionary explains them as a companion, associates, match….in short, another name for a ‘not to close friend’…!!! Then where does the term ‘peer pressure’ came from ?? Why n when n how associates become competitors or rivals ?? It’s good to compete but healthy competition…!! Why rat race…?? Why debilitated rivalry ?? What is the need to prove that you are better than others or best of all…!!! And even if you need to compete…what is the point of beating yourself to limits to prove so…?? Why push yourself so hard, why pressurize yourself so much…why fake..when you know what you are…!!! Who asks you…who forces you…!!! None other than your own self…!!! Which is in dire need to satisfy it’s own ego to be the best…!!! And so we choose the wrong way… to compete…and in that course…seeps in the pressure to maintain that scale…that level of being best…and we label it again on others…( our fav job of labeling)…” peer pressure”….though it’s we not them who is forcing that pressure on oneself…!!! What if the competition is healthy…What if we hold each other’s hands and say…Hey buddy…come along…let’s do it together…The ” Ubuntu”…we are one…there is no competition…if you will rise, I will rise with you…What if “Peer power” is cultivated instead of “pressure”…What if oneness is taught instead of segregation…What a beautiful world it would be…The one we all want to live in…The one we aspire for…!!! So let’s erase the greens of jealousy …the reds of anger…the Blues of vengeance….and fill the world with only hues of pink….the color of love…!!! Good morning my Loving souls

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….love….Ritu

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